Happy weekend, everyone! This Memorial weekend, as we remember our heroes, I've found myself in a reflective mode, and I wanted to share something truly crucial with you all.

We often get caught up in the latest shiny object—the new diet, the new workout trend, a friend's recommendation, or the latest ad. Low carb, keto, intermittent fasting... I'm not saying these are bad, but the starting point for lasting change isn't found there. It's about getting back to basics, building a strong foundation, just like building a house.

As I often say, "How we do one thing is how we do everything."

A true, strong foundation in health, finances, or relationships starts with the basics.

My core Life Principle is:

Transformation isn't about a change; it's about a choice, one step at a time.

That means one breath, one bite, one thought, one movement—moment by moment. That's where we have the opportunity to shift.

Nutrition: The Path to Food Freedom

For healthy weight, instead of the ...

Mental Rehearsal is the Bridge 

We often hear about diet and exercise, but the foundational habits of the Wellness Vortex, Curiosity 🤔 and understanding your "Why" 🎯, are the true game-changers. Think of Curiosity as your daily practice, like a blameless observer of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Simply noticing and saying, "Isn't it interesting that..." without judgment builds a powerful foundation 🌱 for self-awareness and growth. This consistent practice 💪 strengthens over time.

But Why?

Why ❓ even embark on this journey of curiosity? Our "Why" is that deep, emotional driver ❤️‍🔥 – the guiding light 💡 that ignites your mornings and steers your choices. It's about envisioning your life's end 🔚 and choosing the path that leads to fulfillment, not regret. Our "Why" might be clear ✨, or it might unfold gradually 🌸 – and that's okay 👍.

Let's remember, transformation is a choice ➡️, one "baby step" 👣 at a time. 

Let's not hesitate to ask for help 🙏; courage 💪 is p...

 

From Seeds to Success: Empowering Your Non-Negotiable Wellness

We often hear about achieving success in various aspects of life, whether it's in our careers, relationships, or personal goals. But what about our wellness?

Just like gardens and children, our wellness requires consistent care and attention to flourish. 

 

It's not about quick fixes or fleeting trends; it's about cultivating "non-negotiable" habits that form the foundation for a healthy and fulfilling mastery of life.

 

The Power of Non-Negotiable Habits

Think of your daily habits as seeds. The ones you consistently nurture—your non-negotiables—are the ones that grow into the life you desire. As James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, states, "Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement" (Clear, 2018). These non-negotiable habits, consistently practiced, compound over time, leading to significant improvements in your overall well-being. 

These habits aren't a one-size-fits-all approach. As I like...

I often get asked how I maintain a healthy weight, and it's definitely a result of conscious choices across various aspects of my life. Today, I want to pull back the curtain and share the key pillars of my personal routine – the same principles I weave into my teaching to help you find what works best for you.

Taking a Step Back: The Power of "Why" & Curiosity

Before we dive into the "how," let's touch on the "why." Your motivation is the engine that drives your consistency. Whether it's keeping up with energetic kids (like mine!), improving your health, or simply feeling good in your own skin, identifying your "why" is the crucial first step. In fact, seeking clarity on my "why" has become one of my own Wellness Vortex non-negotiable habits. But even more foundational is Curiosity. For me, curiosity is my top non-negotiable habit; it's the bedrock for everything I explore and learn in wellness. It fuels my understanding and my ability to adapt and grow.

Nutrition: The Foun...

Happy Earth Day, everyone! Today, as we celebrate our incredible planet, I want to bring us to one non-negotiable habit within the Wellness Vortex: being outdoors for at least 10-20 minutes each day.

In the whirlwind of our busy lives, it's easy to get caught in a relentless cycle of thoughts, to-do lists swirling in our minds like a persistent storm. The demands of work, family, and life in general can leave us feeling frazzled and disconnected. But what if the most potent antidote to this mental clutter and overwhelm was simpler than we think? What if it was waiting just beyond our doorstep, and could even help us burn a few extra calories?

The truth is, stepping outside and engaging with the natural world offers a powerful reset button for our minds and bodies. It's not just a pleasant escape; it's a fundamental need, deeply ingrained in our biology. Here's why making time outdoors is the best medicine for a busy, overwhelmed mind:

The Incredible Benefits of Stepping Outside (B...

Ever feel like you're stuck in a rut, even when you know exactly how to get out? We all have those moments – wanting to eat healthier 🥗, exercise more 💪, pick up that new skill. We know it's good for us, logically. Yet, the couch seems comfier 🛋️, the takeout menu more appealing 🍕, and that new skill… well, tomorrow, right?

In light of our recent comfort food conversation [Access the Replay in the Member Center, Not a member? Join the membership and listen to this and other wellness trainings.], this push-and-pull, this desire for change battling against a surprising resistance, is what we can call the "paradox of change."

And today, I am on a spree of really digging deep into the subject of all the whys and reasons. Why is it that we so often trip ourselves up on the path to becoming who we want to be?

It's not a simple case of lacking willpower. Instead, it's a fascinating interplay of how our minds are wired, the comfort we find in the familiar, and even some deeply ingrained ...

 Your heart is a muscle. Do your reps to build strength.

Let's talk about three rounds we all have to do to keep our hearts strong.

As a wellness and fitness coach who teaches mindset, nutrition, and fitness, I believe and teach that you must start with your own love for yourself before you nurture relationships with others. So, let's build two sessions: Session one is love through self-care. Session two is love through relationships with others.

Session one: Love through self-care.

We will have three rounds with fun sets! Let's go!

Round 1. Mindfulness. Love yourself.

• Set 1. Morning Mirror Exercise: Look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I love you," ten times. Give grace to yourself if it feels hard at the beginning.
• Set 2. Afternoon Calm: Quiet your mind throughout the day. Practice mindful awareness of your senses (sight, sound, touch, smell, taste). In the upcoming members training on February 28th, 3:30 PM CST, we will be covering these essential tools. 
• Set 3. Eve...

 The champagne cork has popped, the glitter settled, and the blank slate of a new year beckons. But with it comes the inevitable flood of resolutions, often destined to fade with the January frost.

Do you know that January 10th was a National New Year Resolutions Quitter Day?

This year, break the cycle! Ditch the "all or nothing" approach and embrace a sustainable strategy for lasting change. Here are 3 crucial things you can do right now to avoid resolution failure and set yourself up for success:

1. Zoom Out, Then Refocus: See Far, Aim Close

Start by anchoring your goals in your deepest "why." What do you truly want your life to look like, not just in a year, but at the end of a decade? What values do you want to guide your journey? Check out the "Why" blog post.

Now, break down that ambitious vision into achievable milestones. Think stepping stones: goals for 3 months, 2 months, 1 month, even weekly and daily. Each small action propels you forward, making the long-term...