What we get wrong about fitness

fitness & movement Mar 29, 2026
 

I have a confession: Growing up, I hated PE class almost as much as I hated math. 📉👟

I was the student always looking for a way to sit out or avoid the workout. I used to look at fitness professionals and think, "To look like that, you have to do it full-time. I’m just a regular person." Even years later, walking into a gym, I’d point at a trainer and tell my friend, "To get those results, you have to make it your entire life."

Fast forward to today: I am a Wellness and Fitness Coach. But here’s the secret—I still consider myself a "regular person." I just learned to stop looking at fitness as a chore and started looking at it as a sequence of feeling.

 

The 5-Step Fitness Wellness Vortex Hierarchy

Most people fail at "getting fit" because they jump straight to high-intensity workouts without a foundation. Real physical wellness is a 5-step process:

  1. Foundational Movement: This isn't "exercise"—it's life. It’s the act of standing up every hour and hitting a daily step goal. Movement is the baseline for everything else.

  2. Postural Alignment: Whether you are sitting at a desk or walking the dog, your posture is your emotional and physical frame. Proper alignment prevents injury and opens up your energy.

  3. Formal Fitness: Once your posture and movement are set, aim for 150 minutes of intentional activity per week. This must include Resistance Training for bone density and muscle preservation, plus Cardio for heart health.

  4. Personalization: Your workout should match your season of life, your age, and your specific goals. A "one-size-fits-all" plan usually fits no one.

  5. The "Feel" Factor: Stop waiting to "feel motivated" before you act. Motivation is generated in the process. I’ve learned to appreciate the movement not because I like sweating, but because I love the way I feel afterward.

 

The Science of Balance

I often hear people say, "I'm just losing my balance because I'm getting older." Here is the truth: Balance is a skill. Just like eating, sleeping, or math, you have to practice it to keep it. If you don't use the Mastery pathways in your brain, they grow weak.  But when you intentionally practice balance, you physically pull energy away from the "alarm system" of your brain and feed your "center of power."   

 

 

Join the April Events

Are you ready to stop "avoiding PE" and start feeling powerful in your body? Join us in the Power Club Community for two upcoming events:

  • The Proper Posture Challenge: A free community event throughout April to help you find your alignment.

  • The Balance Workshop: I’ll be sharing a 4-page assessment to help you find exactly where you are in your balance development and the specific steps needed to progress.

 

Movement is life. Love yourself, love your body, and let’s start moving together.

 


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